“Love is creation. Wholesome love is generative. A wholesome partnership permits these in it to be extra of themselves, not much less. Humility is not essentially humiliating. This recreation is a protracted recreation. Be mild.” — Okay, 31, She/Her, Queer, Home Partnership

Love Consists of the Obligatory House for Ache

“After we say, ‘I don’t know the way we’ll get via this besides that will probably be collectively,’ and I imagine us.” — Eric Mersmann, 40, He/Him, Bi, Married

“Love is a belief I place in somebody. Love is an area for refuge, for ache, and for progress. Love is strolling via a world of chilly, lifeless ache and figuring out there are human hearts beating someplace and that certainly one of them beats for me, after which my coronary heart flutters like a dream come true.” — Hellion, 27, She/Her, Queer, In Love

“Love is when my companion requested me to go to the animal shelter on the anniversary of my mother’s loss of life simply to make me smile — and we took residence two bonded cats.” — Alaina Leary, 25, She/They, Queer, Engaged

Getty Photographs / Attract: Rosemary Donahue

“Love is my companion sitting beside me throughout a panic assault, not telling me to cease or change, not prescribing, simply being there, grounding me. It is coming with me to my therapist’s workplace after a self-harm scare to verify I used to be secure from myself, and my therapist saying, ‘He actually loves you.'” — Anna Swenson, 28, She/Her, Queer, Married

Love Is Within the Smallest Issues

“I am unsure about romance, aside from it is absurd. However my greatest buddy and I despatched one another the very same e-mail this morning and if that is not love, I do not know what’s.” — Elizabeth, 27, She/Her, Queer

“My feelings wheel says love is a sense of lightness and safety, however I’ve by no means felt that approach. So, to me, love is being current, and the uncommon moments within the day once I turn out to be so absorbed within the daylight or snowflakes or style of my ginseng tea that I neglect to really feel anxious, unwell, or that I ought to really feel like much less of an individual for taking over house on the planet.” — Christian, 34, She/Her, Straight-ish, Terminally Single

“Love appears to be like like doing the dishes. I’m an ‘Acts of Service’ individual and I hate doing the dishes, so my husband has taken it upon himself to by no means let a grimy plate fester within the sink. It’s selfless and humble and deeply loving, and I’m grateful he takes pains to point out me love within the language I hear it.” — Skye Sherman, 25, She/Her, Heterosexual, Married

Love Makes Room For Change and Development

“Feeling secure to be a real, genuine individual. Having room for particular person and shared passions. Understanding when every little thing else will get stripped away, your companion will nonetheless maintain you shut.” — Pleasure Overbrook, 30, She/Her, Pansexual, Married

“Love is when I’m challenged, seen, excited, amused, provoked into thought, and most of all, secure. When somebody needs to know me and stays curious and considerate. Once I proceed to be supported and help one other, all through wholesome adjustments.” — Kate, 27, She/Her, Bisexual, Married

“Love is having complete acceptance and the flexibility to belief and overtly talk, with out the concern of judgment or rejection. That should not simply apply to romantic love but in addition to like amongst household and pals.” — Rho Rho, 94, She/Her, Widowed

“Freedom is crucial to like. With out the flexibility to be your self and categorical the quirky, darkish stunning sides of your nature, love suffocates and rapidly evaporates.” — Lilly Harlow, 37, She/Her, Straight, Dedicated Relationship

Supply hyperlink